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Post by RogueTabby on Jul 4, 2012 22:51:45 GMT -5
Simple Post explaining What Happend You were my best friend....for 2 years 5 months....my future husband for a year an 5 months as of today....an it all ends like this... With being flat out told....I'm not worth his honesty....his word...his promises to be kept.... I asked him "You won't even deny that I'm right?" "If I did I'd be lying to you".... For the first time since i was in SIXTH grade...I trusted someone 100%...only be proven what a stupid foolish girl I truely am... I took a risk every inch of me originally screamed to not take...but I let my heart win that argument because I was in love with my best friend.. But...to say what he said...after everything....hurts to the point it literally hurts to breath...I take a breath an force back a sob... I told him the darkest parts of my past....the things no other person in this world but me knew about...I opened up my entire mind an everything to him.... |
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Post by dancingdots on Jul 4, 2012 22:57:59 GMT -5
Wow, Is this true? O.o It is very touching!
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Post by RogueTabby on Jul 4, 2012 23:03:26 GMT -5
It's why I called it quits with my husband an left...
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Post by RogueTabby on Jul 4, 2012 23:05:28 GMT -5
He's now sitting here saying it was all a lie an he didn't know what he was thinking..I don't know what was truth an what is a lie v.v
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Post by wolfamorph on Jul 4, 2012 23:11:36 GMT -5
What really happened?
I mean, what did he say?
Sometimes our closest friends make mistakes.
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Post by RogueTabby on Jul 5, 2012 7:53:19 GMT -5
He broke his word on a major thing we've been fighting over since October. (He wasn't just a friend  he was my future husband) an then he sai openly said "You're not worth my honesty, you're not worth keeping promises or my word too" 10 Minutes later I brought that back up to him an he simply did =/ and I said "You won't even deny it?" "I'd be lying to you if I did" |
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Post by wolfamorph on Jul 5, 2012 13:12:54 GMT -5
What an ass. I'm sorry. I think you guys should sit down and seriously talk about it.
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Post by RogueTabby on Jul 5, 2012 21:18:57 GMT -5
We've been talking all day trying to sort this shit out.
I finally did something I swore I would never do.
I told him he can have me in his Ducking life an change an get rid of his bastard friend...or he cna choose his friend an loose his family (All of it including his parents as they love me an said he would be on his own if he screwed up) He chose me.
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Post by wolfamorph on Jul 6, 2012 0:25:20 GMT -5
Good.
I'm sorry you went through that. I know it's hard, and it sucks when the people that we love hurt us, but that is what makes our love and bonds grow stronger =]
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Post by RogueTabby on Jul 6, 2012 8:17:48 GMT -5
We've been fighting on an off since October. An I love him so much that I do give him the chances he needs to changes. I'm his first actual relationship so he's new to it all but I won't tolerate him changing into a total jerk/ass when his friends are around.
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Post by horsehuskeylover on Jul 30, 2012 10:49:34 GMT -5
You need to get away from him. Or else one day he might say, 'Leave me and I will kill you,' because I know how that would feel to have that happen and someone could be really hurt from one's decision....
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Post by ikatie on Jul 31, 2012 18:19:30 GMT -5
I dont think he will do that huksey
aww im sorry to hear. My parents were fighting a bit, almost to the point they were going to divorce but they made up and now they are back to normal. It might take some time. but everyone has their fights once in awhile and maybe if you hang in there a bit longer things WILL get better.
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Post by counrygirl009 on Jul 31, 2012 19:52:20 GMT -5
I know where your coming from.. somewhat. I'm not going to say I went though the exact same thing, but my fiance and I had a friend, Corey, who we became good/close friends with last year. Around October-ish of last year, Corey started using us and when Corey was around, my fiance acted different than he did when it was just us or around other friends.
It took Corey defaulting on a loan for a motorcycle that my fiance co-signed for (Corey missed 2 payments- the first 2) and that ended up "ruining" our/their friendship (thankfully they aren't friends anymore in my opinion).
Sometimes, friends can influence us in horrible ways.. sadly. The only thing I can think of to say is to talk to him (deffiantley) and maybe talk to the friend.
I tried talking with Corey... it didn't do any good because he's that big of an cluck. Maybe it may help talking to them both.
horsehuskey- he doesn't sound like the kind who would resort to harming/killing her. Those type of people are VERY controlling. Rouge's boyfriend/fiance seems as if he's easily influenced by his friend... and a guy who's in a relationship with someone he loves needs to be dedicated to her and their relationship.. not be easily swayed by people who aren't in the relationship.
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Post by horsehuskeylover on Jul 31, 2012 19:52:48 GMT -5
No, I mean I know the hurt from that....That is why I was where I was at today......
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Post by cou on Aug 1, 2012 16:51:37 GMT -5
Just because someone did that, not all boys will.
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he was my future husband) an then he sai openly said "You're not worth my honesty, you're not worth keeping promises or my word too" 10 Minutes later I brought that back up to him an he simply did =/ and I said "You won't even deny it?" "I'd be lying to you if I did"
